In sports, you have the athlete, the player of the game. He/she follows the rules of the game, the strategy. The athlete’s goal and purpose is to master the rules so the game can be played with greatest precision and… frankly fun!
There’s also the coach. Even though the coach’s job is to assist the athlete in mastering the rules of the game, the coach is also the one who sees what is occurring on the field from a higher level.
Welcome to the world of Reality Mechanics.
This is where I sit. Exposing the actual mechanics of all of the various games that we play.
Be it in business, money, relationships, health, purpose, mission, productivity, happiness, meaning, results and outcomes.
Many players play at the level of the game. How do I win in business, how do I win in relationships, how do I win in sales, in marketing, in self-mastery, money-management, leadership, investments, performance, energy, execution, etc. etc. etc.
The game of chasing outcomes.
The clearest examples of this are ADHD coping strategies for business owners. How do I win given the rules of operating under ADHD conditions.
It’s all a fun game to play when you see it from the coach’s corner. It may not be as fun or comfortable being the player trying to learn all the rules that come with playing the game. The one we unconsciously agreed to play in the first place!
But what you’re really here to see is that all of these pre-conditions you thought were part of the game are actually rules that can be trance-ended.
Would you like to continue to play the game of limitation or see how it was created to be so exquisitely real, and eventually exit it afterall?
This choice won’t require years of self-exploration but the choice is important
And it can’t be coming from the place of “show me how to exit the game so I can finally win it!”
The point of the game has always been in the playing of it, not necessarily winning. In that sense the mere fact of playing is the win.
When you exit the seriousness of needing to win the game, is paradoxically when it both becomes fun, and the winning becomes more obvious. More often occurring.
And we get to celebrate it way more as well when the win shows up unexpectedly as a surprise because we’re so focused on actually playing the game than dreading in anxious anticipation… waiting where this freaking win is about to show up to finally help us feel better about playing the game in the first place.
It is the end of playing the Game of Limitation
When you see through the mechanics of how the game of limitation is structured, in essence the game is done.
The seeing is enough.
This in a way becomes the new game to play. The seeing through the various rules and regulations you’ve been playing IN before.
As you see each one, and learn to recode it live, the game becomes that of natural expression, execution and exploration.
You still play…
But now the complete opposite of attempting to achieve outcomes.
The game becomes following the most immediate arising of curiousity, following it as breadcrumbs without really knowing where exactly it is you’re going.
Unexpected results, occurrences, happenings become tiny little surprises you celebrate than the previously heavy problems and challenges you thought you needed to now resolve.
Disappointment no longer applies because you had no idea where you were going in the first place. You just knew you were being lead somewhere. This keeps your capacity in integrity to actually be with whatever shows up on your path as a new discovery, shortcut, feedback or redirection.
And you watch in amazement of what reality starts to form WITH your participation in it.
But in order to get there you need to start seeing clearly
Such new natural expression of going with collecting the breadcrumbs of excitement presented in front of you is not really possible while you’re wearing the gear you used to play the game of limitation in the first place.
The protective layers of comfortable shoulder pads, the hard-shelled helmet that kept you safe from earlier perceived competitors, and players of the “opposite” team, and specifically the filtered lenses and glasses you’ve used to layer onto the events and happenings so you could see better from within the rules of the game.
All of that has to go.
The process of such dropping, putting down, dissolving, taking off, and recoding is the ultimate purpose of Reality Mechanics offerings.
Because once you’re able to see clearly, you don’t really need much guidance from there. The actions, observations, and next steps simply become obvious.
And until you’re there, Lenscoding is the process to learn to master next
From playing the game of attempting to achieve outcomes, to playing the game of looking for, discovering, and recoding lenses that made the need to play the game of limitation necessary in the first place.
So… would you like to continue searching for solutions that may help you win the game you’re playing or see through the lenses that create the need for that knowing in the first place?
Because here we exit the game entirely and begin living life through the aliveness it was meant to be in the first place. And curiously watching where it’s about to take us all on its way.
Still acting, still performing, still exploring, learning, doing, creating. But now with such greater freedom, capacity, capability and really true power, and agency of how we actually get to influence outcomes and what creates them.
Let’s begin to see through the lenses that have been covering your natural drive and direction!